My husband has masturbated to pornography his entire adult life. He thought he would stop when we got married but no dice. It caused him a lot of guilt, in fact I think he was a lot more torn up about it that I was. He tried to stop many times but just didn’t have the willpower. We are very open about sex and he finally came to me with this idea of using a male chastity device to help him quit.
I thought it was funny, actually, and kind of ironic that he would use this sex toy to stop masturbation. Anyway, we set some goals and we had a little ceremony and locked him up. I took the keys and hid them (under the flour container, as if he would ever look there!). At first we would just go a day or two, then I would unlock him and we would have pretty great sex. Gradually I started to feel sort of sexy about having control over our sex life and I started to increase the time to see how much control I really had. I once kept him locked up for an entire month and it almost did him in.
When he is locked up he is basically on a constant sexual high. It is very frustrating for him, but that is part of the pleasure he gets from it. He says he constantly thinks of me at work and wonders where I am, what I am wearing and what I am doing. It has restored his interest in me to higher levels than we were dating!
Now days I keep him locked up for about two weeks at a time. I’ll have to do the math some time but if memory serves we’ve been doing this for about a year and a quarter. He’s completely masturbation and pornography free (except the few soft films we watch together) and we don’t plan to change our situation any time soon. ;)
So, to sum it up, it’s been a great experience for us both but it has also taken a lot of study, trial & error and patience to get it right. I would recommend it to anyone who is a little bit adventuresome, especially if the husband has a kinky side and enjoys being tied up or is turned on by a confident woman. It probably won’t work as a masturbation stopper unless it’s also a sexy game between the two of you. I could tell you so much more but I’ll leave it at that for now. I hope that helps you! Thanks again, you made my day!
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My husband has masturbated to pornography his entire adult life. He thought he would stop when we got married but no dice. It caused him a lot of guilt, in fact I think he was a lot more torn up about it that I was. He tried to stop many times but just didn’t have the willpower. We are very open about sex and he finally came to me with this idea of using a male chastity device to help him quit.
I thought it was funny, actually, and kind of ironic that he would use this sex toy to stop masturbation. Anyway, we set some goals and we had a little ceremony and locked him up. I took the keys and hid them (under the flour container, as if he would ever look there!). At first we would just go a day or two, then I would unlock him and we would have pretty great sex. Gradually I started to feel sort of sexy about having control over our sex life and I started to increase the time to see how much control I really had. I once kept him locked up for an entire month and it almost did him in.
When he is locked up he is basically on a constant sexual high. It is very frustrating for him, but that is part of the pleasure he gets from it. He says he constantly thinks of me at work and wonders where I am, what I am wearing and what I am doing. It has restored his interest in me to higher levels than we were dating!
Now days I keep him locked up for about two weeks at a time. I’ll have to do the math some time but if memory serves we’ve been doing this for about a year and a quarter. He’s completely masturbation and pornography free (except the few soft films we watch together) and we don’t plan to change our situation any time soon. ;)
So, to sum it up, it’s been a great experience for us both but it has also taken a lot of study, trial & error and patience to get it right. I would recommend it to anyone who is a little bit adventuresome, especially if the husband has a kinky side and enjoys being tied up or is turned on by a confident woman. It probably won’t work as a masturbation stopper unless it’s also a sexy game between the two of you. I could tell you so much more but I’ll leave it at that for now. I hope that helps you! Thanks again, you made my day!
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